
Self-mastery is one of the greatest spiritual journeys we can undertake. Our self mastery is tested constantly. What matters is what we choose to do with the opportunity to practice strengthening this self mastery within ourselves.
Self Mastery is a quiet, daily commitment to rise above impulse, discouragement, and distraction. It allows us to choose to be intentional in living more centered in Christ.
Self mastery is not about perfection. Itâs about the direction we choose to take for ourselves. Every small, faithful choice leads us closer to the person God knows we can become.
When we learn to govern our thoughts, care for our bodies, speak with kindness, and act with purpose, we begin to feel a deeper sense of peace and spiritual confidence. Self-mastery is not meant to be overwhelming; it is meant to be empowering. It is what allows us to walk hand-in-hand with the Savior.
My goal for this message is that we will try to look a little deeper into what self-mastery looks like in our thoughts, body, words, and actions and that we may have a stronger desire to practice self mastery in as many areas of our lives as possible.
First, thereâs Mastery of Thoughts and the Mastery of the mind. We can choose to train our thoughts and our mind to turn toward light rather than darkness. âď¸
Our thoughts influence our emotions, our choices, and the overall atmosphere of our day. Self-mastery starts with gently guiding the mind back to truth whenever it tries to wander toward fear, comparison, judgment or negativity.
Scriptures to Anchor the Mind đ
We can invite Gods words daily to come into our lives and allow them to change us, strengthen us, help us and invite us to grow. đ Here are a few of my favorites.
⢠âLet virtue garnish thy thoughts unceasinglyâŚâ â D&C 121:45
⢠âBe still, and know that I am God.â â Psalm 46:10
⢠ââŚLet the peace of God rule in your hearts.â â Colossians 3:15
One of the reasons why I love mindfulness is because it teaches me exercises that I can practice to help strengthen my mind body and soul. So, here are a few exercises that may help you as you pause and breathe.
⢠Thought Pausing: Notice the thought and ask:
âIs this true? Is this helpful? Is this what God would tell me about this situation?â
⢠Replace, Donât Wrestle: Swap anxious thoughts for a scripture, a gratitude, or a truth statement.
⢠Morning Stillness: Sit for 3 minutes in quiet breathing and invite Christ to fill your mind with light.
These small practices, repeated daily, can help your mind become a place where the Spirit can dwell more easily.
Mastery of Body: Honoring the Temple God Gave Us. đ
Our bodies are sacred gifts. Developing self-mastery in how we care for them brings spiritual strength, emotional balance, and physical energy. Here are a few scriptures to remind us of the importance of this.
⢠âYour body is the temple of the Holy GhostâŚâ â 1 Corinthians 6:19â20
⢠ââŚI discipline my body and keep it under control.â â 1 Corinthians 9:27 (ESV)
We often forget that the enemy is not just after our mind and our spirit. He is also after our body! He never got a body and therefore wants us to be miserable like himself. He wants us to speak negatively about our body. He doesnât wants us to remember that our body was given to us and created by God our Father! He wants us to defile our body with addictions, thoughts and actions that disrespect our body or make us feel that we donât care for it enough. God on the other hand, invites us to love ourselves. To respect, protect and honor our body. With food, rest, exercise and gratitude for each part of this temple we were given. To help master it and care for it. I fully believe that we will give an account at the end of our lives for what we chose to do with our God given body. đ
Our Habits Help Build Body-Mastery: We can help ourselves choose habits that are beneficial to our minds and bodies. For example;
⢠Choose one small daily habit to strengthen (water, stretching, walks, sleep).
⢠Practice body gratitude every nightâthank God for one thing your body did today.
⢠Listen to promptings: rest when the Spirit says rest; move when the Spirit nudges you to move.
Self-mastery of the body is not about pressure, comparison or appearance. itâs about honoring the gift God entrusted to each one of us.
Mastery of Words: Speaking With Purpose, love and light. đŁď¸ đ
Our words hold power. They can lift, heal, comfort, or inspire. Self-mastery in speech means slowing down long enough to choose words that align with love and truth. This is one of the ones that Iâm trying to practice the most. đ To be a little more aware to try to use words that lift how we speak to ourselves and about others. I know that as we choose words that lift and bring light to othersâŚThat is one of the best ways that we can honor God and show Him how much we love Him. â¤ď¸
Here are a few scriptures that can shape the way we speak.
⢠âLet your speech be always with graceâŚâ â Colossians 4:6
⢠âA soft answer turneth away wrath.â â Proverbs 15:1
⢠âSpeak the truth in love.â â Ephesians 4:15
And in mindfulness thereâs an exercise called;
⢠The Holy Pause: Before responding, take a breath and ask,
âWhat would uplift, bring peace and love to think about this situation? How would God want me to respond to this?
⢠Speak to Bless: Make it your mission to let your words be a blessing. This can be super hard to do because we all have differences in opinions and things that we donât agree with or want to gossip about etc. đ But we can all try to be a little more gentle with our words.
We can try to remember that we ourselves are very imperfectâŚjust as the people we judge are imperfect. But in Gods eyes we are all His children and what we do to others we do unto Him. đŁ So, we should try to be kinder, more forgiving, more loving and having more self mastery. đŞđźEnough to know that there are some things that we just need to LET GO & LET GOD HELP US THROUGH IT. â¤ď¸đđź & this isnât just about others, but it also applies to how we treat ourselves too. Sometimes we need to let god of some of the judgements we have with ourselves and give ourselves a little more love, kindness and compassion. đĽšđ
⢠Gentle Self-Talk: Talk to yourself the way Christ wouldâwith patience, compassion, and hope. đ
When we master our words, we become instruments of peace. As we master our thoughts, words and actions we finally begin to start living with intention. Weâre not driven by impulses, anger, etc.
Instead, we learn to recognize our power and realize that itâs better to use this power for good and not to hurt myself and others by giving away my power. So, today I invite you to find your inner power. Your opportunity to protect and strengthen yourself.
Self-mastery in action means we choose our behavior deliberately rather than reacting from emotion or stress. Christ is the perfect example of calm, purposeful livingâeven in pressure-filled moments.
He has taught us;
⢠âLet all things be done decently and in order.â â 1 Corinthians 14:40
⢠âBy their fruits ye shall know them.â â Matthew 7:20
⢠âI can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.â â Philippians 4:13
Tools To Help Us With Our Action Mastery:
⢠One-Hour Focus: You donât need to control the whole dayâjust the next hour. Take action for just the next hour and feel the difference.
⢠Act vs. React: When emotion rises, pause and ask:
âWhat outcome do I want? What action aligns with the person Iâm becoming?â
⢠Evening Check-In: Spend a few minutes at night reporting your wins and struggles to God, and ask Him to help you shape your actions, thoughts, words and desires for tomorrow.
At the end of it all. Self Mastery is really just helping us to become a little more Christlike. we could call it Christ Mastery. As we strive to become better masters of ourselves, I promise that He will provide wisdom, direction and guidance on those days when youâre struggling the most.
Self-mastery is not something we do alone. Itâs something we do with Christ. Heâs the one who helps us. He fills the gaps.He strengthens our weaknesses. He blesses our efforts, no matter how small.
Self-mastery is the opportunity that we have to learn to live in partnership with the Savior. Moment by moment. And as we do, something shifts in our hearts: Weâre able to let go of things easily, We focus our energies on the things that matter most, we become calmer, more joyful, more confident, and more spiritually anchored.
This allows us to feel more capable of becoming the sons and daughters God created us to be. And He would want to remind us that we donât need to master everything at once. We can start by just choosing one area todayâand invite Christ into it.
He will do the rest.
I invite you to come to class tonight at 7pm to practice your self mastery as you choose to do something great for your Body, Mind and Spirit. Our meditation will be focused on practicing self mastery and allowing ourselves to let go of things and trust in God and in ourselves. Class will be canceled next week so, hopefully you can make it tonight! đ
Love
Lili đ¸









